It’s sad to me that some people choose to only focus on the negative images. There is always a positivity to find. And it’s easier to focus on because the negative feelings are more intense. It takes a LOT to make your positive feelings be that intense.
You might have forgotten about watching our footprints wash away from the beach, or watching the sunset over the Golden Gate Bridge, and maybe even the missed football kick like Lucy and Charlie. These are the things that could never go away. The happiest of things to have ever been.
For sure there were bad memories. Let those slip away and fill the space with new happy memories.
Reconcile and break the cycle.